Entrust oneself totally to the Divine

So long as you oscillate between wanting to transform yourself and not wanting to transform yourself—making an effort to progress and becoming
indifferent to all effort through fatigue—the true attitude will not be there. All your observations should lead you to one certainty, that by oneself one is nothing and can do nothing.

Only the Divine is the life of our life, the consciousness of our consciousness, the Power and Capacity in us. It is to Him that we must entrust ourselves, give ourselves without reserve, and it is He who will make of us what He wants in His infinite wisdom.

Ref: Some Answers from The Mother